TH Frequently Asked Questions
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Q1. Why is there no marriage success fee for women?
At CALLA, we believe this approach reflects both cultural values and thoughtful care.
In Japan, it has traditionally been the man’s role to take financial responsibility when a marriage is established.
We respect this mindset and have designed our system accordingly.
At the same time, many women who join CALLA are considering a major life change — sometimes relocating to a new country.
To make this step as gentle and accessible as possible, we have chosen not to place a marriage success fee on women.
Our intention is not to rush decisions, but to create an environment where you can move forward with clarity, trust, and peace of mind.
Q2. What is considered a “successful match” at CALLA?
At CALLA, we consider a match “successful” when both parties clearly and mutually confirm their intention to marry.
This decision is not based on the number of messages exchanged or the length of time you have been in contact.
What matters most is a shared and explicit agreement to move forward toward marriage.
Please note that if the relationship becomes intimate before a formal confirmation, we will still consider it a successful match.
This reflects a serious, mutual commitment between two adults.
Our goal is to keep this definition simple, fair, and transparent — so you always understand where you stand.
Q3. Can a genuine relationship be built through online communication?
It is completely natural to feel uncertain about building a serious relationship online, especially when marriage is involved.
At CALLA, online communication is considered only the starting point — not the final step.
Messages and video calls are used to get to know each other and build mutual understanding.
As the relationship deepens and both sides feel ready, the Japanese man will typically visit you in your country.
Spending time together in person allows both of you to confirm your feelings, values, and compatibility before making any important decisions.
Our process is designed so that marriage decisions are based on real connection and shared experiences, not online communication alone.
Q4. I don’t speak Japanese very well. Is that okay?
Yes, that is completely okay.
Many women who join CALLA are not fluent in Japanese when they begin.
Language ability is not a requirement to start building a relationship.
To support clear and respectful communication, we carefully prepare your profile and personal introduction in natural Japanese, based on who you are and what you value.
This helps ensure that your intentions and personality are accurately understood from the very beginning.
The Japanese men registered with CALLA also understand that language learning takes time and approach communication with patience and care.
What matters most is your intention toward marriage and your willingness to communicate — not perfect language skills.
Q5. What is the typical age range of the Japanese men?
The Japanese men introduced through CALLA range in age from their 20s to their 70s, with men in their 40s and 50s being the most common age group.
All men are required to submit official documents, including proof of income and proof of single status, as part of the screening process.
This ensures that only men with a clear and genuine intention toward marriage are introduced.
This requirement is one of the key differences between CALLA and casual dating or matching apps.
Introductions are based not only on age, but also on values, life stage, and readiness for marriage.
We believe that shared goals and mutual respect matter far more than age itself.
Q6. I’ve never experienced international marriage or living abroad. Is that okay?
Yes, that is completely okay.
Many women who begin with CALLA have never experienced international marriage or living abroad before.
You are not expected to have prior experience or special knowledge.
CALLA is designed to guide you step by step, at a pace that feels comfortable and realistic for you.
We focus on clear communication, mutual understanding, and thoughtful decision-making throughout the process.
What matters most is not experience, but your intention toward marriage and your willingness to learn and grow together as a couple.
Q7. I’ve never been to Japan. Can I still join CALLA?
Yes, of course.
Many women who begin with CALLA have never visited Japan before.
Visiting Japan is not a requirement to start the process.
We understand that an unfamiliar country can feel overwhelming at first.
To help you feel more comfortable, we share information about daily life, culture, and values in Japan through our Japan Life section.
This is simply a resource to help you learn at your own pace and imagine what life in Japan might be like.
You are never expected to decide or move forward before you feel ready.
Q8. I am a single mother. Can I still join CALLA?
Yes, absolutely.
Being a single mother does not exclude you from joining CALLA.
What matters most is your intention toward marriage and your desire to build a stable future together.
Some Japanese men have experienced divorce or other significant life changes.
At CALLA, we value understanding and respect for each other’s backgrounds, and we support relationships that grow naturally through shared understanding.
We do not encourage compromise or forced matches.
Instead, we focus on introductions where life circumstances, values, and intentions align in an honest and comfortable way.
Q9. Is there a cooling-off period?
Yes. CALLA follows the cooling-off provisions required under Japanese law.
After signing a service agreement, you may cancel the contract within the legally defined cooling-off period, without providing any reason.
If you choose to cancel during this period, the contract will be terminated, and any fees already paid will be fully refunded.
No cancellation fees or penalties will be charged.
The detailed conditions of the cooling-off process are clearly explained in our terms and will always be confirmed before any contract is finalized.